Managing the "Not Enough" Feeling


The other day, I caught myself apologizing: “Sorry it’s taking me so long…” I was explaining why I hadn’t shared any new work recently.

Then I stopped mid-sentence.

Why was I apologizing for my creative process? For taking the time I needed to create work that matters?

The truth is, we’re not working too slowly - we’re working at the pace that allows our best ideas to emerge. And that looks different for each of us.

Traditional productivity advice for creators tells us to:

  • Share everything, immediately (forget perfection)
  • Create something new every day (make a creative habit)
  • Share your work-in-progress (be brave)
  • Post on your platform daily (be seen)

But this approach ignores how introverted creators actually produce their best work:

  • Through deep reflection
  • In focused solitude
  • With careful consideration
  • At a measured pace

Here’s how to work with your introvert strengths while managing that “not enough” feeling:

TRACK WHAT ACTUALLY WORKS

Notice when you create your best work. For me, it revealed something surprising:

  • 2-hour deep dive = One piece I’m truly proud of
  • 2 hours of rushed creation = Work that never feels quite right

Here’s a little tracker to add to your journal:

Deep Work Session:
Time spent:
What I created:
How it felt:
Energy level after:

MEASURE IMPACT, NOT ACTIVITY

Instead of counting posts or projects, track real value:

  • No: “Posted three times this week”
  • Yes: “Created one piece that truly resonates”
  • No: “Started five new projects”
  • Yes: “Completed one meaningful work”

DESIGN YOUR RECOVERY

Quality creation needs space. Plan for it:

  • Take breaks between deep work sessions
  • Allow ideas to develop without rushing
  • Keep some days for pure reflection
  • Set boundaries around your creative time

A BETTER WAY TO MEASURE “ENOUGH”

Ask yourself:

  • Did I create something meaningful today?
  • Did I give my ideas the time they deserved?
  • Did I honor my need for creative space?
  • Did I make intentional choices about my energy?

This Week’s Experiment

  1. Notice when you apologize for your pace.
  2. Document one meaningful creative choice each day.
  3. Build in one extra reflection block.
  4. Celebrate one thoroughly developed idea.

Remember: Your thoughtful approach isn’t a limitation - it’s how you create work that lasts!


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